Sunday, July 10, 2011

How to Help Your Children Before They Are Arrested or WORSE

Have you ever had problems with you children?  The kind of problems that you wish and prayed would never happen to you, your spouse or any other parent?  If the answer is yes, then you're in the right place.  For years I have been struggling with most likely the same problems that you have been dealing with.

Have you ever been disrespected?
Have you ever been so embarrassed by your child's temper and outbursts?
Have you ever seen your child EXPLODE for basically no reasons what so ever?
Are you frustrated that you cannot understand why your child will not listen to you?

Like others struggling with this problem, you should be aware that you are not alone with this problem.  The fact is that children are difficult to deal with.  It could be for a number of reasons.  It could be us the parents, are not doing something right.  Maybe we were not ready to have a child, maybe we thought we knew everything about parenting, or maybe we just don't have a clue.  However, even the best parents in the world can have problems raising a child, you know, the child that you always dreamed of having.  Sometimes your child and many many others have problems inside themselves.  Sometimes no matter what we do as parents, we realize nothing has worked.  Sometimes no matter how hard me or you try, we just cannot find the results that we want.

Well thankfully after years and years of dealing with frustration and pain, I have been able to find something to help me.  Believe me, from the time my first child was 3-4 years old, I noticed that she was behaving differently from her friends, and other children of parents that I knew.  I thought that this was only a stage.  I thought that this was only going to be for only a few months, but I was WRONG.  I looked all over the Internet, all over libraries, and even payed A LOT of money to talk to professionals who all told me what I thought I already knew.  THAT IT WAS JUST A PHASE, but you know what, they were WRONG.

Thankfully I can across a wonderful eBook that helped me get through these problems that I was having with my daughter, and I saw RESULTS!  For the first time, I didn't feel embarrassed when I would pay the babysitter her money.  I didn't have to hear horror stories from the babysitters about what happened when I was gone for just a few hours.  One of the best things to me was that I was able to keep the same babysitter and not have to look for a new babysitter after almost every time I used one.  It was just great to see normal improvement with my beautiful daughter, who no matter what I always loved and cared for greatly.

By now I'm sure that you are wondering what I did.  I found after searching and searching and searching, a wonderful eBook that helped me find a parenting strategy and helped me learn how to get the control back that I wanted, with plenty of helpful tools...that I NEEDED.  This showed me how to deal with conflict, and with the problems that all us parents are having.  Plain and simple I used this LIFE SAVING PARENTING BOOK!

I was totally skeptical about paying any more money to anyone else.  I didn't care if it was paying for another book, another doctor, another parent, or to the world's best nannies that we have all seen on those reality television shows.  I mean how can those nannies be so good at what they do, how can they over night change what appeared to be the most problematic child in the world, into the nicest gentlemen that has ever existed.  I finally reached my breaking point when I was already one my second daycare program, and after work, I went to pick my daughter up, and I was told that I only have 30 days to find a new daycare center because of how my precious little girl was behaving.  I was beyond frustrated, on my way out, an employee stopped me in the parking lot, and recommended that I go here: Get Your Control Back! Thankfully with some work on my part, I started to see results over time, and after a few weeks I thought I was dreaming. I thought this isn't my life.  My daughter was finally behaving like I always thought that she would.

All I can say is try it yourself, after everything you've been through, you owe it to yourself.  Finally the Child I Always Wished For!

I can't wait to read about everyone's success, and how much happier you all are. Congratulations on your new happiness.